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Say It With Flowers
Flowers-both cultivated and those with a native nature-have become associated with sentiments, often with the purpose of conveying amorous thoughts.
In the 1600s in Constantinople (what is now Istanbul), flowers gained meanings which enabled lovers to convey messages to each other without having to write or talk.
This language of flowers was introduced to Europe by Lady Mary Wortley Montagu, a celebrated letter-writer and society poet who, in 1716, accompanied her husband to the Turkish Court in Istanbul. During her stay, she sent a Turkish love letter to England which interpreted the meanings of some plants, flowers, and spices.
The wonder of flowers, she proposed, was that words and messages of love - even altercations - could be passed in a refined and subtle manner without 'inking the fingers'.
The passing of messages via the floral code was then taken up by the French, only to return to England during the reign of Queen Victoria.
More than 800 flowers have special meanings associated with them. There are over 30 for roses alone.
The way in which the flowers were worn and presented had a meaning in addition to the sentiments attached to individual flowers. A flower bent towards the right would signify "I", while one extending to the left would signify "you".
Therefore a red rosebud leaning to the left would say: "You are pure and lovely".
| A |
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| A beauty |
- Orchis |
| A belle |
- Orchis |
| A heart ignorant of love |
- White rosebud |
| A smile |
- Sweet William |
| A token |
- Ox-eye daisy, Laurestina |
| Absence |
- Wormwood |
| Acknowledgement |
- Canterbury bell |
| Activity |
- Thyme |
| Adversity, energy in |
- Camomile |
| Admiration |
- Amethyst |
| Adoration |
- Dwarf sunflower |
| Adresses rejected |
- Ice plant |
| Advice |
- Rhubarb |
| Affectation |
- Morning glory |
| Affection |
- Mossy saxifrage, pear, sorrel |
| Affection, bonds of |
- Gillyflower |
| Affection, enduring |
- Gorse |
| Afterthought |
- Michaelmas Daisy |
| Age |
- Guelder rose |
| Agreement |
- Straw |
| Alas! For my poro heart |
- Deep red carnation |
| Always lovely |
- Indian double pink |
| Am I forgotten? |
- Holly |
| Ambition |
- Mountain laurel |
| Amiability |
- Jasmine |
| Anticipation |
- Gooseberry |
| Anxious and trembling |
- Red columbine |
| Appointed meeting |
- Everlasting pea |
| Ardent Love |
- Balsam |
| Ardor |
- Cuckoo plant, arum lily |
| Argument |
- Fig |
| Artifice |
- Acanthus |
| Assiduous to please |
- Sprig of ivy with tendrills |
| Assignation |
- Pimpernel |
| Attachment |
- Indian jasmine |
| Audacity |
- Larch |
| Austerity |
- Common thistle |
| Avarice |
- Scarlet auricula |
| Aversion |
- Indian single pink |
| B |
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| Bantering |
- Southernwood |
| Bashful shame |
- Deep red rose |
| Bashfulness |
- Peony |
| Be mine |
- Four-leaved clover |
| Beautiful, call me not |
- Unique rose |
| Beautiful eyes |
- Variegated tulip |
| Beauty |
- Parti-coloured daisy, rull red rose |
| Beauty |
- Orchis |
| Beauty always new |
- China rose |
| Beauty and prosperity |
- Red-leaved rose |
| Beauty, capricious |
- Lady's slipper, musk rose |
| Beauty, delicate |
- Hibiscus |
| Beauty, divine |
- American cowslip |
| Beauty, lasting |
- Stock |
| Beauty, mental |
- Clematis |
| Beauty, pensive |
- Laburnum |
| Beauty, rustic |
- French honeysuckle |
| Beauty, unconscious |
- Burgundy rose |
| Beauty,unfading |
- Gillyflower |
| Belief |
- Passion-flower |
| Belle |
- Orchis |
| Benevolence |
- Potato |
| Betrayal |
- Judas tere |
| Beware |
- Oleander, rosebay |
| Beware of Excess |
- Saffron |
| Blackness |
- Ebony |
| Bluntness |
- Borage |
| Blushes |
- Marjoram |
| Boaster |
- Hydrangea |
| Boldness |
- Pink |
| Bonds |
- Convolvulus |
| Bonds of affection |
- Gillyflower |
| Bravery |
- Oak leaves |
| Bulk |
- Water melon, gourd |
| Bury me amid Nature's beauties |
- Persimmon |
| C |
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| Call me not beautiful |
- Unique rose |
| Capricious beauty |
- Lady's slipper, musk rose |
| Change |
- Pimpernel |
| Changeable disposition |
- Rye grass |
| Charity |
- Turnip |
| Charming |
- Cluster of musk roses |
| Chaste love |
- Acacia |
| Cheerfullness in old age |
- American Starwort |
| Cheerfulness under adversity |
- Chrysanthemum |
| Childishness |
- Buttercup |
| Chivalry |
- Great yellow daffodil |
| Cleanliness |
- Hyssop |
| Coldheartedness |
- Lettuce |
| Color of my Life |
- Coral honeysuckle |
| Come down |
- Jacob's ladder |
| Comforting |
- Scarlet geranium |
| Compassion |
- Allspice |
| Concealed Love |
- Motherwort |
| Concealed merit |
- Coriander |
| Confession of love |
- Moss rosebud |
| Confidence |
- Lilac polyanthus |
| Conjugal love |
- Lime |
| Consolation |
- Red popppy |
| Cordiality |
- Peppermint |
| Counterfeit |
- Mock orange |
| Crime |
- Tamarisk |
| Criticism |
- Cucumber |
| Cure |
- Balm of gilead |
| Cure for heartache |
- Cranberry, swallow-wort |
| Curiosity |
- Sycamore |
| D |
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| Danger |
- Rhododendron, monkshood |
| Dangerous pleasures |
- Tuberose |
| Dauntlessness |
- Sea lavendar |
| Death |
- Cypress |
| Death preferrable to loss of innocence |
- White rose(dried) |
| Deceit |
- Flytrap, dogsbane |
| Deceitful chams |
- Thorn-apple |
| Deception |
- White cherry |
| Declaration of love |
- Red tulip |
| Decrease of love |
- Yellow sweet-brier, yellow rose |
| Dejection |
- Lichen |
| Delay |
- Eupatorium |
| Delicacy |
- Cornflower |
| Delicate Beauty |
- Hibiscus |
| Departure |
- Sweet Pea |
| Despair |
- Cypress and marigold |
| Devotion |
- Heliotrope |
| Difficulties, I surmount |
- Mistletoe |
| Dignity |
- Cloves, laurel-leaved magnolia |
| Disappointment |
- Carolina syringa |
| Discretion |
- Lemon blossoms, maidenhair |
| Disdain |
- Yellow carnation, rue |
| Distinction |
- Cardinal flower |
| Distrust |
- Lavender |
| Divine beauty |
- American cowslip |
| Do me justice |
- Sweet chestnut tree |
| Do not abuse |
- Saffron |
| Domestic industry |
- Flax |
| E |
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| Early attachment |
- Thornless rose |
| Early friendship |
- Blue periwinkle |
| Early youth |
- Primrose |
| Education |
- Cherry tree |
| Elegance and grace |
- Yellow jasmine |
| Elegance, mature |
- Pomegranate flower |
| Elevation |
- Scotch fir |
| Enchantment |
- Holly herb |
| Enduring affection |
- Gorse |
| Energy in adversity |
- Camomile |
| Envy |
- Crane's bill, bramble |
| Esteem |
- Garden sage |
| Esteem and love |
- Strawberry tree |
| Esteem but not love |
- Spiderwort |
| Estranged love |
- Lotus flower |
| Evanescent pleasure |
- Poppy |
| Excellence, perfect |
- Strawberry |
| Excellence, unpretending |
- Camellia japonica |
| Excess, beware of |
- Saffron |
| Expectation |
- Anemone |
| Expected meeting |
- Nutmeg, geraniums |
| Extent |
- Gourd |
| Extinguished hopes |
- Major convolvulus |
| Extravagance, fantastic |
- Scarlet poppy |
| Eyes, beautiful |
- Variegated tulip |
| F |
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| Faithfulness |
- Blue violet, heliotrope |
| Falsehood |
- Yellow lily |
| Fame |
- Tulip |
| Fantastic extravagance |
- Scarlet poppy |
| Farewell |
- Michaelmas daisy |
| Fascination |
- Carnation, honesty |
| Fashion |
- Lady's mantle |
| Fate |
- Hemp |
| Feasting |
- Parsley |
| Fecundity |
- Hollyhock |
| Female ambition |
- White hollyhock |
| Female fidelity |
- Speedwell |
| Festivity |
- Parsley |
| Fickleness |
- Pink Larkspur |
| Fidelity |
- Veronica, Ivy, Plum Tree |
| Fidelity in love |
- Lemon blossoms |
| Filial love |
- Virgin's bower |
| Fine arts |
- Acanthus |
| Finesse |
- Sweet william |
| Fire, flame |
- Fleur-de-luce |
| First emotions of love |
- Purple lilac |
| Fitness |
- Sweet flag |
| Flattery |
- Venus' looking-glass |
| Flee away |
- Pennyroyal |
| Folly |
- Columbine |
| Foolishness |
- Pomegranate |
| Foresight |
- Holly |
| Forgetfulness |
- Moonwort |
| Forget me not |
- Forget-me-not |
| Forsaken |
- Garden anemone, laburnum |
| Forsaken love |
- creeping willow |
| Fraternal love |
- Woodbine |
| Freedom |
- Water willow |
| Freshness |
- Damask rose |
| Friends, thoughts of absent |
- Zinnia |
| Friendship |
- Rose acacia |
| G |
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| Gaeity |
- Butterfly orchis, yellow lily |
| Gain |
- Cabbage |
| Gallantry |
- A nosegay, sweet william |
| Generosity |
- Orange tree |
| Generous and devoted affection |
- French honeysuckle |
| Genius |
- Plane tree |
| Gentility |
- Geranium, pompon rose |
| Girlhood |
- White rosebud |
| Gladness |
- Myrrh |
| Gladness, youthful |
- Spring crocus |
| Glory |
- Bay tree, laurel |
| Good wishes |
- Sweet basil |
| Goodness |
- Mercury |
| Gossip |
- Coboea |
| Grace |
- Multiflora rose |
| Grace and elegance |
- Yellow jasmine |
| Gracefulness |
- Birch tree |
| Grandeur |
- Ash tree |
| Grief |
- Harebell, marigold |
| H |
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| Happiness, return of |
- Lily of the Valley |
| Happy love |
- Bridal rose |
| Hatred |
- Basil |
| Haughtiness |
- Purple larkspur, tall sunflower |
| Health |
- Iceland moss |
| Heart's mystery |
- Crimson polyanthus |
| Heartlessness |
- Hydrangea |
| Hidden worth |
- Coriander |
| Honesty |
- Honesty |
| Hope |
- Flowering almond, hawthorn, snowdrop |
| Hope extinguished |
- Major convolvulus |
| Hope in adversity |
- Spruce pine |
| Hopeless love |
- Yellow tulip |
| Hopeless, not heartless |
- Love-lies bleeding |
| Hospitality |
- Oak tree |
| Humility |
- Broom, small bindweed, field lilac |
| I |
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| I am too happy |
- Cape jasmine |
| I am worthy of you |
- White rose |
| I am your captive |
- Peach blossom |
| I aspire to thy smile |
- Daily rose |
| I attach myself to you |
- Indian jamsine |
| I change but in death |
- Bay leaf |
| I declare against you |
- Liquorice |
| I desire a return of affection |
- Jonquil |
| I die if neglected |
- Laurestina |
| I engage you for the next dance |
- Ivy geranium |
| I feel your kindness |
- Flax |
| I have a message for you |
- Iris |
| I live for thee |
- Cedar leaf |
| I love |
- Red chrysanthemum |
| I surmount difficulties |
- Mistletoe |
| I will not answer hastily |
- Monthly honeysuckele |
| I will not survive you |
- Black mulberry |
| Imagination |
- Lupin |
| Immortality |
- Amaranth |
| Impatience |
- Yellow balsam |
| Impatient resolves |
- Red balsam |
| Inconstancy |
- Evening primrose |
| Inconstancy in love |
- Wild honeysuckle |
| Incorruptible |
- Cedar of lebanon |
| Independence |
- Wild plum tree, white oak |
| Indifference |
- Candytuft, mustard seed, senvy |
| Indiscretion |
- Almond tree |
| Ingenuous simplicity |
- Mouse-eared chickweed |
| Ingenuity |
- Pencil-leaved geranium |
| Ingratitude |
- Buttercup, wild ranunculus |
| Injustice |
- Hop |
| Innocence |
- White daisy, white violet |
| Innocence, youthful |
- White lilac |
| Insincerity |
- Foxglove |
| Insinuation |
- Great bindweed |
| Inspiration |
- Angelica |
| Instability |
- Dahlia |
| Ireland |
- Shamrock |
| J |
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| Jealousy |
- French marigold, yellow rose |
| Jest |
- Southernwood |
| Joy |
- Wood sorrel |
| Joys to come |
- Celandine |
| Justice, do me |
- Sweet chestnut tree |
| Justice shall be done to you |
- Coltsfoot |
| K |
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| Keep your promises |
- Plum tree |
| Knowledge, useful |
- Parsley |
| L |
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| Lamentation |
- Aspen tree |
| Lasting beauty |
- Stock |
| Lasting pleasure |
- Everlasting pea |
| Levity, lightness |
- Larkspur |
| Life |
- Lucerne |
| Lightheartedness |
- Shamrock |
| Longevity |
- Fig |
| Love |
- Blue violet, myrtle, rose |
| Love in idleness |
- Wild violet |
| Love is dangerous |
- Carolina rose |
| Love of nature |
- Magnolia |
| Love returned |
- Ambrosia |
| Love's oracle |
- Dandelion |
| Love, a heart ignorant of |
- White rosebud |
| Love, ambassador of |
- Cabbage rose |
| Love, ardent |
- Balsam |
| Love, chaste |
- Acacia |
| Love, confession of |
- Moss rosebud |
| Love, declaration of |
- Red tulip |
| Love, estranged |
- Lotus flower |
| Love, forsaken |
- Creeping willow |
| Love, only deserve my |
- Campion rose |
| Love, platonic |
- Rose acacia |
| Love, pure and ardent |
- Double red pink |
| Love, secret |
- Toothwort, yellow acacia |
| Love, slighted |
- Yellow chrysanthemum |
| Love, sweet and secret |
- Honey flower |
| Love, the first emotions of |
- Purple lilac |
| Lovely, thou art all that is |
- Austrian rose |
| Love, true |
- Forget-me-not |
| Lowliness |
- Bramble |
| Luxury |
- Chesnut Tree |
| M |
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| Majesty |
- Crown imperial, imperial lily |
| Malevolence |
- Lobelia |
| Marriage |
- Ivy geranium |
| Maternal affection |
- Cinquefoil |
| Maternal love |
- Moss rosebud |
| Maternal tenderness |
- Wood sorrel |
| Matrimony |
- American Linden |
| mature elegance |
- Pomegranate flower |
| Meekness |
- Birch tree |
| Meeting, an appointed |
- Everlasting pea |
| Meeting, an expected |
- Nutmeg, geranium |
| Melancholy |
- Dark geranium, cypress and marigold |
| Memory, pleasures of |
- White periwinkle |
| mental beauty |
- Clematis |
| Merit, concealed |
- Coriander |
| Merit, reward of |
- Bay wreath |
| Message |
- Iris |
| Modesty |
- White violet, white lilac |
| Modesty and purity |
- White lily |
| Momentary happiness |
- Virginian Spiderwort |
| Mourning |
- Weeping willow, cypress |
| Music |
- Oats, reeds |
| My best days are past |
- Meadow saffron |
| My compliments |
- Iris |
| My heart is in flames |
- Provence rose |
| N |
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| Nature, love |
- Magnolia |
| Neatness |
- Broom, small bindweed, field lilac |
| Neglected beauty |
- Throatwort |
| Never ceasing remembrance |
- Everlasting |
| Night |
- Minor convolvulus |
| O |
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| Old age |
- Tree of life |
| Only deserve my love |
- Campion rose |
| Ornament |
- Hornbeam tree |
| P |
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| Painting |
- Auricula |
| Parental affection |
- Sorrell |
| Passion |
- White dittany, yellow iris |
| Patience |
- Dock, ox eye |
| Patriotism |
- Nasturtium |
| Peace |
- Olive branch |
| Pensive beauty |
- Laburnum |
| Pensiveness |
- Cowslip |
| Perfected loveliness |
- White camelia japonica |
| Perform your promise |
- Plum tree |
| Perplexity |
- Love-in-a-mist |
| Persecution |
- Chequered Fritillary |
| Perseverance |
- Canary grass, swamp magnolia |
| Piety, steadfast |
- Wild geranium |
| Pity |
- Pine |
| Platonic love |
- Rose acacia |
| Play |
- Hyacinth |
| Pleasant recollections |
- White periwinkle |
| Pleasure and pain |
- Dog rose |
| Pleasure, evanescent |
- Poppy |
| Pleasure, lasting |
- Everlasting pea |
| Pleasures of memory |
- White periwinkle |
| Poetry |
- Eglantine |
| Poverty |
- Evergreen clematis |
| Power |
- Cress |
| Precaution |
- Golden rod |
| Precocity |
- May rose |
| Presumption |
- Snapdragon |
| Pretension |
- Spiked willow herb |
| Prettiness |
- Pompon rose |
| Pride |
- Amaryllis, hundred-leaved rose |
| Promptness |
- Ten-week stock |
| Prosperity |
- Beech tree, wheat |
| Prudence |
- Mountain iash |
| Pure and ardent love |
- Double red pink |
| Pure and lovely |
- Red rosebud |
| Pure love |
- Single red pink |
| Purity |
- White lilac, Star of Bethlehem |
| Purity and sweetness |
- White lily |
| Q |
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| R |
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| Recall |
- Silver-leaved geranium |
| Reconciliation |
- Filbert, hazel |
| Refusal |
- Striped carnation, variegated pink |
| Regard |
- Daffodil |
| Relieve my anxiety |
- Christmas rose |
| Religious superstition |
- Aloe, passion-flower |
| Remembrance |
- Rosemary, forget-me-not |
| Remorse |
- Bramble, raspberry |
| Rendezvous |
- Chickwee |
| Reserve |
- Maple |
| Resolution |
- Purple columbine |
| Restoration |
- Persicaria |
| Retaliation |
- Scotch thistle |
| Return of happiness |
- Lily of the valley |
| revenge |
- Birdsfoot trefoil |
| reverie |
- Flowering gern |
| Reward of merit |
- Bay wreath |
| Reward of virtue |
- Garland of roses |
| Riches |
- Corn |
| Rivalry |
- Rocket |
| Rupture of a contract |
- Broken straw |
| Rural happiness |
- Yellow violet |
| Rustic beauty |
- French honeysuckle |
| Rustic oracle |
- Dandelion |
| S |
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| Sadness |
- Dead leaves, yew |
| Safety |
- Traveller's joy |
| Satire |
- Prickly pear |
| Secret Love |
- Toothwort, yellow acacia |
| Self-esteem |
- Poet's narcissus |
| Sensitiveness |
- Mimosa |
| Sensuality |
- Spanish jasmine |
| Sentiment, warmth of |
- Spearmint |
| Separation |
- Carolina jasmine |
| Severity |
- Branch of thorns |
| Shame |
- Peony |
| Sharpness |
- Barberry |
| Shyness |
- Vetch |
| Sickness |
- Anemone, zephyr flower |
| Silence |
- Belladonna (deadly nightshade) |
| Silliness |
- Fool's parsley |
| Simplicity |
- American sweet-brier |
| Sincerity |
- Fern, honesty |
| Slander |
- Stinging nettle |
| Sleep |
- White poppy |
| Slighted love |
- Yellow chrysanthemum |
| Splendid beauty |
- Amarylis |
| Steadfast piety |
- Wild geranium |
| Stoicism |
- Box tree |
| Strength |
- Cedar, fennel |
| Surprise |
- Truffle |
| Suspceptibility |
- Passion-flower |
| Suspicion |
- Mushroom |
| Sweet and secret love |
- Honey flower |
| Sympathy |
- Balm, thrift |
| T |
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| Talent |
- White pink |
| Taste |
- Scarlet fuchsia |
| Tears |
- Helenium |
| Temperance |
- Azalea |
| Temptation |
- Apple, quince |
| The color of my fate |
- Coral honeysuckle |
| The fine arts |
- Acanthus |
| The first emotions of love |
- Purple lilac |
| The heart's mystery |
- Crimson polyanthus |
| The witching soul of music |
- Oats |
| Thoughts |
- Pansy |
| Thoughts of absent friends |
- Zinnia |
| Thy frown will kill me |
- Currant |
| Ties |
- Tendrils of climbing plants |
| Time |
- White poplar |
| Timidity |
- Amaryllis |
| Token, a |
- Ox-eye daisy, laurestina |
| Tranquilize my anxiety |
- Christmas rose |
| Tranquility |
- Stonecrop |
| Transient impressions |
- Withered white rose |
| Transport of joy |
- Cape jasmine |
| True friendship |
- Oak-leaved geranium |
| True love |
- Forget-me-not |
| Truth |
- White chrysanthemum, woody nightshade |
| U |
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| Unanimity |
- Phlox |
| Unbelief |
- judas tree |
| Uncertainty |
- Convolvulus |
| Unchangeable |
- Globe amaranth |
| Unconscious |
- Red daisy |
| Unconscious beauty |
- Burgundy rose |
| Unexpected meeting |
- Lemon geranium |
| Unfading beauty |
- Gillyflower |
| Unfortunate love |
- Scabious |
| Unity |
- White and red rose together |
| Unpretending excellence |
- Camellia japonica |
| Useful knowledge |
- Parsley |
| Uselessness |
- Meadowsweet |
| W |
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| Variety |
- Aster, mundi rose |
| Victory |
- Palm |
| Virtue |
- Mint |
| Virtue, domestic |
- Sage |
| Virtue, reward of |
- Garland of roses |
| Voraciousness |
- Lupin |
| Vulgar-minded |
- African marigold |
| W |
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| War |
- York rose |
| Warmth of sentiment |
- Spearmint |
| Watchfulness |
- Dame violet |
| Widowhood |
- Sweet scabious |
| Win me and wear me |
- Lady's slipper |
| Winning grace |
- Cowslip |
| Winter |
- Guelder rose |
| Wisdom |
- White mulberry |
| Wish, a |
- Foxglove |
| Wit |
- Ragged robin |
| Witchcraft |
- Nightshade |
| Woman's love |
- Carnation, carnation pink |
| Worth beyond beauty |
- Sweet alyssum |
| X |
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| Y |
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| You are perfect |
- Pine apple |
| You are radiant with charms |
- Ranunculus |
| You are young and beautiful |
- Red rosebud |
| You occupy my thoughts |
- Pansy, purple violet |
| You please all |
- Branch of currants |
| You will be my death |
- Hemlock |
| Your looks freeze me |
- Ice plant |
| Your presence revives me |
- Rosemary |
| Your purity equals your loveliness |
- Orange blossoms |
| Your qualities, like your charms are unequalled |
- Peach |
| Youth, early |
- Primrose |
| Z |
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| Zealousness |
- Elder |
| Zest |
- Lemon geranium |
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